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Update: Providence mom held without bail in killing

12:00 PM Mon, Oct 26, 2009 |
Kate Bramson    Email

By Amanda Milkovits
Journal Staff Writer

PROVIDENCE, R.I. -- A Providence woman is being held without bail for the murder of the father of her oldest child.

Shanna Rufo cried Monday morning as District Court Judge J. Terrence Houlihan Jr. read aloud the charge that accused her of stabbing to death 29-year-old George Holland during an argument Saturday afternoon at 15 Ridgeway St., where Holland lived with a girlfriend.

shanna_rufo_300.jpg Shanna Rufo appears in District Court, Providence, Monday morning on a murder charge in the stabbing death of George Holland. With her is public defender Robert Marro.
Providence Journal photo / Mary Murphy

Holland had eight children with several different women, including Rufo, who is the mother of his 13-year-old son. He also had been charged on several occasions with domestic assault, although each of those charges was eventually dismissed, and had been the subject of no-contact orders involving several different women. Rufo herself took out a restraining order against Holland in 1996, the year she gave birth to their son, according to court records.

Gina Bly, Rufo's sister, said after the arraignment that Holland used to
assault Rufo when they were dating years ago. They'd since broken up but had a good relationship with each other and their son, Bly said. Rufo later had three daughters in a new relationship.

"My sister would help with all of his kids," Bly said tearfully.

Rufo's cousin, Angel Leary, said that she and Rufo were spending time together on Friday and Saturday morning -- Rufo was getting tattoos of her four children's names -- when Holland's current girlfriend called Rufo and asked for help. The woman told Rufo that Holland hadn't come home all night, but three of his children with another woman were left behind at the house. Leary said she told Rufo not to get involved, but Rufo went over to the house on Ridgeway Street anyway.

Bly said Rufo called her later Saturday, after Holland's death, and told her what happened. Bly said Rufo told her that Holland returned while she and his current girlfriend were on his computer, and he became enraged.

Holland attacked his girlfriend, and when Rufo got in the middle, he kicked and beat her, Bly said.

"My sister stood up in between them, and he threw my sister into the computer and kicked her in the back," Bly said. "She has scoliosis and a bad knee. He's 6 foot 2 and 275 pounds. George is not a little man."

The prosecutor said in court that Rufo grabbed a kitchen knife and stabbed Holland twice. Bly said her sister told her that she doesn't remember what happened.

The original version of this story was posted at 10:20 a.m.

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Comments

Maury said:

Uh Oh-more baby daddy/mama drama



Jeremy said:

Maury, the man that was murdered was a close friend of mine. The lack of empathy in your comment is chilling.



sw said:

i wonder how many of those kids im my tax dollars are paying for. probably for folks too. sounds like a great situation for everyone.



Ned said:

29yrs. old, 8 children with several different women ???????



TC said:

Sorry for your loss. But he shouldn't be beating women. Spanking, maybe, if they ask nicely!



Tom L said:

Sad...but this is what you get with this crowd...and as to all of the poor kids, all with the different fathers, most of whom the kids probably have no idea of whom he is....this has got to stop!

Don't these women have a clue about how to have sex and/or other ways to please these selfish men, they align themselves with, with getting pregnant?

Or is this being done intentionally (having large numbers of kids) in order to get more $$$$ for each child added to their welfare checks?



marcela said:

men kill women all the time, and they are treated with kid gloves. a woman defends herself from an abusive ex, and the judge acts like she's a cold-blooded killer. women kill men largely out of self-defense. men kill women for any reason at hand. that is why gender, as in female gender, is one of the categories included in hate crimes legislation.



Gretchen said:

@ Jeremy: I don't know if I'd be so quick to call this slug a friend of mine.



TM said:

So what your saying is that it was right for them to have an agruement & then for her to come to HIS house & kill him with his kids around is right????
You people are sick if you even think that it is even right for her to be there....not to mention NO1 deserves to take n-e 1's life when did they become GOD...never it is not right & I dont care how many kids he has with different women no1 should take n-e 1's life & that is that point blank



Michael C said:

R.I.P George Holland i got feelings for him because thats my best friends father and he didnt deserve that now my best friends cryin alot cause their father died i wish there was a way he can come back STAY UP^ JAMAY HOLLAND AND JORGE HOLLAND



Nekeva Lowery said:

Some of the disrespectful comments are truely uncalled for and uneccessary and it shows that you have no up bringing. A life was lost here!!! Regardless of how many babies he had or what he may or may NOT have done back in '96 is irrelevant to him being MURDERED BY HIS BABY's MOMMA!!!! Unreal :(

My deepest condolences to the entire family!!!!

Sidebar: Whoever wrote this story should also have a lil more knowledge to not report ANYTHING else other then the FACTS and not "hear-say" by the suspects relatives or the suspect herself!!! This article was very one-sided. I hope justice is served and shes held accountable for her actions!!!!



NSL said:

AND ANOTHER THING....to even leave a comment it does state & I WILL QUOTE.... "Please be civil." All this talkin about welfare checks and baby momma this...basically everything else posted except condolences shouldnt even have been posted! Its disrepectful to the departed and the family



speechless said:

yes i agree with NSL the whole thing is just sad..i know shanna and her children and all the back and forth about the persons invovled is not important. The children should be the focus here and that's it.. i feel for all of them...shanna's children are without a mother behind something they had no control over and Mr.Holland's children are without a father.. i pary for them all even Shanna.... it's still soo unreal to me..



allie said:

um excuse y0uz t0 all 0f the pple wh0 acting as if they kn0w george wtf?? d0 y0u even kn0w anything ab0ut the situation? y0u have n0 idea h0w his family feels, im cl0se wit s0me0ne in his family wh0 def w0uld n0t apprecitae all y0uz talkin mad junk ..forget about all the drama but this guy got MURDERED its not something he asked for so stop witcha nonsence opinionz




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